Being in a relationship with a manipulator is incredibly hard. Even a smart and strong person may swallow their bait. The manipulator will use the person taking all their strength, self-control, and killing the partner's self-esteem. Does this sound like your relationship? Take the quiz and find out.
Can your partner match people and circumstances like a chameleon?
Do you often feel guilty without your fault in your relationship?
Yes, I have this feeling all the time
It happens
No, it never happens
Assess his critical attitude toward you
Your partner is dodgy and tends to confuse the issue
Does your partner try to clear out your social bonds with other people?
Yes, he/she doesn't want me to communicate with my friends, relatives
Sometimes the partner doesn't like when I hang out with my friends
No, hardly
If you're paid more attention to than to you your partner in the company, his reaction:
Do you feel a decline in strength and lack of energy when he's around?
Yes
No
Does your partner rationalize every his fault and low act?
No, low acts are not justified
Sometimes he tries to
This is not a rare thing
Assess how much your other half likes lying
You often feel yourself a good-for-nothing, incapable, stupid person after talking to your partner.
Does he/she like to suffer in public?
Didn't notice
It happens
It can be said that's his/her hobby
Do you sometimes feel that you don't belong to yourself?
No
Assess how egocentric is your partner
Does he/she easily demonstrate sympathy?
Yes, the level of his/her empathy is high
Not every time
Scarcely ever
He/she is always discontented with you even in front of other people.
You have a healthy relationship
Your relationship is beyond praise - you both trust each other, respect the partner and do not make out of him/her a toy for your needs. Keep it up! Share the quiz result to let your friends check themselves too!
Probably, you should think about your borders
Based on your answers, sometimes your partner tries to manipulate you. Only explicitly stated borders can help to prevent it. If you feel that the relationship oppresses you, a psychologist's consultation can help you. Share the quiz result to let your friends check themselves too!
Your relationship is hardly healthy
Most probably, your partner is a manipulator who always tries to break you, bend to submission. It' hard to keep your self in such a relationship. Perhaps, a psychologist's consultation can help you. Share the quiz result to let your friends check themselves too!