Am I in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship?

MaryKate
2019-10-03 13:05:19
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Am I in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship?
Abusive relationships are, above all things, unhealthy relationships. Abuser is a person doing physical or psychological violence over the partner. It's very hard and sometimes dangerous to live with such a person. Answer the questions and find out whether the elements of abusing are typical of our relationship.

Is your partner incredibly jealous?

Assess the roughness

Do you curry favour with your partner?

No, we have a relationship of equality

Sometimes

Yes, it often happens

Your partner says offensive jokes about you.

How many times a week do you apologize to your partner?

Does your partner check your calls, messages?

No, that's awful, we trust each other

Sometimes

Yes, my contacts are monitored all the time

Your partner feels free to use something unacceptable for you

How does your partner look when you joyfully chat with your friends?

Was there beating on the part of your partner?

Your partner depreciates your achievements or doesn't acknowledge them.

Assess your sense of pity to the partner even if he/she hurts you

The partner's mood changes suddenly: now she/he's tender and in a minute foments a conflict?

No, it is not about him/her

Sometimes

It often happens

Assess how much are you satisfied with the love life with this person.

Your partner often manipulates you.

How often does your partner suddenly change plans?

We talk it over

Rarely

Quite often

Are you often accused of a lie?

Your relationship is hardly destructive

Your partner is hardly an abuser. Here's respect and trust in your relationship, and this is the main thing. Keep it up! Share the result with friends to let them check themselves too ;)

Perhaps, you should take thought

Most probably, your partner is not a true tyrant and despot but there are some elements of your personality suppression in your relationship. If this bothers you, visit a psychologist or a crisis center for consultation. Remember you deserve love and respect! Share the result with friends to let them check themselves too ;)

Perhaps, you should take care of yourself and your health

Based on your answers, your partner can be an abuser. Probably, your relationship oppresses and concerns you and you should change something in your life. If this bothers you, visit a psychologist or a crisis center for consultation. Remember you deserve love and respect! Share the result with friends to let them check themselves too ;)